Every and each one of us has a unique thing that you can’t find anywhere else in the world, that’s because you’re a unique individual, you probably heard this a lot and maybe it triggers something on you, maybe not. Whether you believe it or not, you are special and there’s no one else on the world like you. You’ll say; well you don’t know me how do you know I’m special. Yes I don’t know you but we all came from the same source of energy, we were all created by one God. if I’m special –and I know I am– that means you are too! if there’s one single person on this earth that you admire so much, you must know that you both have the same intelligence, if he can be so awesome so can you!
You may have heard someone telling you that you’re not good enough or you’re not that beautiful as you think! or you’re too tall or too short, but excuse me! who gives the right to put on some rules that we have to follow to look good for you! I don’t need to be perfect for you! I’m perfect for myself and that’s enough. And believe me the moment you acknowledge your own worth, it will reflect immediately on others. You won’t find these kinda people in your life, it’s either they’re gonna respect you and see your worth or they’re gonna disappear from your life. They can’t be in the same energy level you’re in. And even if they were, their opinion won’t matter to you, because you already know your worth, you don’t need anyone else to tell you.
Whether you’re overweight, underweight, tall, short or whatever you are, there is something about you that isn’t in anyone else. there’s something or things about you that makes you so freaking amazing. It might be your eyes, eyebrows, lips, shoulders, butt ;), skin color, freckles, curly hair or your smile! whatever that is, look for it, find it and show it off!
For years, I used to follow some stupid rules about how I must be like, and hide that or show only that. But I realize why do I have to be something I’m not just to please others! will that help me? will it give me any satisfaction? absolutely not. The only person I have to be perfect for is ME! so I stopped chasing others opinion about myself and I focused only on me, and that opened so many doors for me, and still! I will be lying if I said I didn’t need help from my loved ones, they helped me to see the real me but I only got the help because I was willing to change, and see myself and accept it as is.
Bottom line, stop chasing and searching for other’s acceptance. you’re a unique just as you are. Repeat that to your self, own it and live that way and watch how this small act can have so much impact on your life.